Friday, December 26, 2008

Merry Christmas. Happy Boxing Day

Snow Angel


When my family spent a year in Kenya we became acquainted with the British (and post-British colonial) holiday known as Boxing Day. Boxing Day, December 26, (also known as St. Stephen's Day) was originally a day for charity. One can almost see a high-minded British lord giving his servants a special hamper of meats and sweets on Boxing Day. But despite the wonderful tradition, I have now seen another side of Boxing Day also fitting of the moniker. In this era of internet shopping and shipping at the holidays, my Boxing Day was full of breaking down the mountain of cardboard in my kitchen and making repeated trips to the car to pile the recycling. I am happy to report that my kitchen is mostly cardboard free. And now I have only to figure out what St. Stephen would have had to say about it.




We had a wonderful white Christmas complete with snow falling through out the day. The boys were appropriately giddy in the morning and spent most of the rest of the day (post gift opening) laying about amid the assorted fragments of ribbons and packaging and wrapping paper, playing with a few new toys. In the late afternoon our neighbor, Leslie, came over and we all went sledding, flying down the hill farther with each trip as we wore a track through the knee high cover. In the evening, Tim and I took the boys to our friend Ruth's who was celebrating her hundredth Christmas. Together the five of us had dinner, eating from Ruth's beautiful Christmas china, and enjoying the 97 year age span. It was a great end to Christmas day, celebratory and warmly full. I hope you each had a holiday that was warm and bright and truly merry.



Snow Walk on Monday


Happy Boys


Opening Presents


Ruth with her Christmas china


Sunday, December 21, 2008

Earth stood hard as iron

While the rest of the northern half of the country has been being socked with massive snowfall, we have been cold cold cold but relatively snow-less. The boys have been making due with the drifts that cover the ground, but their snow angels are poor specimens with bits of grass peeking through.





Tonight however, upon leaving church after the advent program, Lessons and Carols, we walked outside to find we were being snowed upon with large lacy flakes, the kind which meander down, twirling. It was a wonderful sight; the car was blanketed in the hour we'd been away from it, the trees reaching with full arms. Tomorrow I will take the boys sledding, we will have cold noses, we will pack snowballs and make hearty, grassless angels.

Lessons and Carols is one of my favorite services of the church year. Year to year it is the same: nine readings interspersed with carols. We sing some of the most beautiful hymns in the book, the ancient "Of the Father's Love Begotten" written by Marcus Aurelius Clemens Prudentius (348-410), the modern "A Stable Lamp is Lighted" written by Richard Wilbur (b. 1921), a former US poet laureate, a 15th C. German carol, "Lo, How a Rose E'er Blooming" and the 19th C. "In the Bleak MidWinter" written by poet, Christina Rossetti.

There is something about each of these, a line or phrase, that keeps me coming back to them. In the Rossetti poem it is the whole of the first stanza "In the bleak midwinter, frosty wind made moan, earth stood hard as iron, water like a stone; snow had fallen, snow on snow, snow on snow, in the bleak midwinter, long ago." In the German carol it is the repetition of the words, "when half spent was the night." In "Of the Father's Love Begotten," I love the words "he the source, the ending he." And in the Wilbur poem it is the beginning of the final stanza: "But now, as at the ending, the low is lifted high." There is such richness to these words, I could walk the hard freeze of my winter landscape all day and never wear through Rossetti's image: "frosty wind may moan, earth stood hard as iron, water like a stone."

We have been busy this week with holiday things: Botanie's christmas party (our first year with enough employees to warrant a party!), our friends' annual white elephant exchange (we got a pocket screwdriver set, but missed the yodeling pickle) and several trips to the post office to mail off packages. The boys slept by the tree with Tim on Friday evening, a special holiday tradition that I remember seemed so magical, so wonder-full when I was a child, cozy in my sleeping bag by our glowing tree. This year, it was fun to come down to make my tea in the morning and find all three of my boys still fast asleep around our beautiful fir.




And in case you were hoping, as I was, that the Montana Grizzlies would come up with a National Championship, it was not to be. They lost (badly) to the U. of Richmond Spiders, who wrapped them up 24-7. The restaurant where we watched the game was not so jovial as last week when the Griz took the semi-finals. This time the cheering was replaced, for the most part, by groaning and other noises of exasperation. And Corin was duly pleased with the change in the decibel level.

Only a few days until Christmas, the snow continues to twirl and drift outside, and I wish you each a season that is full and bright. I'll leave off with the first stanza of the Wilbur poem:
A stable lamp is lighted Whose glow shall wake the sky;
The stars shall bend their voices, and every stone shall cry.
And every stone shall cry, and straw like gold shall shine;
A barn shall harbor heaven. A stall become a shrine.




Sunday, December 14, 2008

Winter Finally Arrives

Until Friday evening, our Missoula winter had yet to arrive. Last week when we cut our Christmas tree, the day was 50 degrees and we were shedding coats, the children pulling their sled through mud. On Friday night, however, the weather finally caught up with us and the thermometer has since been hovering around zero with a wind chill far into the negative twenties. We woke on Saturday morning to our first snow of the season and shoveled our walks only to have them covered again by blowing drifts.

I guess the season of wet boots, soggy mittens, piled snow pants, and snowy hats littered around the door has officially begun. Though we bundled the kids and ourselves and tromped around the yard, making several snow angels and eating a few handfuls of powder, we didn't last out-of-doors for long. The wind was too blustery and the cold far too biting for any prolonged enjoyment of our first snow of the year. Instead we turned to the old indoor standby of the holiday season: cookie baking.

Our friend Mayumi was with us for a day before heading back to Japan for the winter break. She and the boys decorated Christmas trees, stars, bells, and candy cane cutouts.

The boys ate more frosting than they decorated with:


Our weather for the coming week looks like a prescription for more hunkering down:
Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday
Partly Cloudy
-1° F | -15° F
-18° C | -26° C
Partly Cloudy
2° F | -13° F
-17° C | -25° C
Chance of Snow
9° F | 0° F
-13° C | -18° C
Snow
11° F | 0° F
-12° C | -18° C
Chance of Snow
11° F | -6° F
-12° C | -21° C

With a high of -1 tomorrow, I think the boys and I will be doing all our Christmas baking in the next few days. And, hopefully, finding less sugary ways to beat cabin fever.

On another note altogether... some of you may know that I have a sort-of-secret love of football and am thus pleased to say that the Montana Grizzlies are headed to the National Championship (Division 1-AA) after a big win over JMU (for you few VA folk that might be reading this). Tim and the boys and I joined my cousins and our friend Elsa at a local restaurant to watch the game and found ourselves along with the entire population of diners and drinkers yelling and giving high-fives to everyone around. The only person not enjoying the win was Corin who thought the whole thing was "too loud" and in general doesn't like it when adults are acting atypical - which for us watching televised sports, much less yelling loudly in public places, certainly qualifies.

And on a final note, Seth has been donning his Santa hat and walking around crouched and growling, like a T-Rex. We couldn't figure out what he was doing until he started repeating: "Santa Claus" (growl) "Santa Claus" (growl). It was then we realized he had confused "Claus" and "claws" and was acting in accordance with how he thinks Santa Claws would act. Sort of makes for an interesting twist on the old guy, don't you think? Sounds like a scary movie trailer: Better watch out, better not cry, better not shout I'm telling you why. Santa Claws is coming to town.....rrrrr.....



Monday, December 8, 2008

O Tannenbaum!

The tree is up. And beautiful.
Kara and Than helping the boys decorate


Tim trimming the top


Seth snitching Tim's tea



Saturday, December 6, 2008

A Winter Outing


Since moving to Montana, Tim and I have grown a fondness for wispy, wild-harvest, Christmas trees. While some might call them (as several members of our family have) Charlie Brown trees, our love of them grows every year and their tree farm counterparts have begun to seem a bit overdone. I mean no slight on those tree-lot types as I've spent a good many cheery Christmases huddled around them, its just to say that our sensibilities have migrated during our years in the west. When we lived in Arlee, Tim and I would walk out our back gate and slip into the hills behind our house to trim a small scraggly bit of fir. We never knew whose land it was and never once saw another person tramping around back there.

Since we've been in Missoula, we've just selected a tree from one of the many tree-kiosks that spring to life in parking lots across town. The boys and I have waited coldly stamping our feet and blowing into our hands, while Tim has stood up one tree after another for our appraisal. This year, however, we decided to do it right.

On Thursday, the boys and I drove to the Lolo National Forest headquarters to buy a permit ($5) which entitled us to cut one tree (under twelve feet) from anywhere in the forest, save designated recreation or wilderness areas. Today, the four of us, met up with our good friends the Earnests, and bundled off to the Lee Creek drainage just beyond Lolo Hot Springs. The year has been remarkable for its lack of snow and unseasonably warm temperatures. Our friends have a tradition of harvesting their Christmas tree up Lee Creek and usually have to snowshoe in some distance beyond where the road is closed, but as there was no snow this year we drove up, parked to one side of the narrow two-track, and jumped across the small creek. Ally and I set up a winter picnic: oranges, pumpkin pie and almonds, hot chocolate and peppermint tea. The kids got down to the business of munching and climbing over logs while the dads scouted out trees. In a few minutes each family had a beautiful fir and plenty of extra greenery for door swags. The sky pitched gloriously blue above the ridge and we sat enjoying the sunshine, the winter light, the sound of the creek shuttling by. I have loved every Christmas tree that has ever graced my life, but this one stands alone for its memorable retrieval.

Winter Picnic


The boys


Corin, Seth, Ella, Margaux


Lindsay and Ally


Ice on Lee Creek

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

December Opening

On Sunday, Corin and I built an Advent wreath, pinning evergreen clippings around four tall tapers. Each time we pulled a fir branch out of the pile of pine, spruce and cedar clippings, Corin exclaimed, as if recognizing an old friend, "Doug Fir!"


We lit our first Advent candle last night, watched the flame flick on just one long purple candle while the others sat dark, waiting. There is an asymmetry to this that is somehow compelling...



These days are short on light. The sun rises just a little east of south and draws a shallow arc across the valley before setting again. While the daytime skies have been a little flat and gray, the night skies have been incredible. At this time of year, I am always happy to see the return of the winter constellations; I love seeing Orion back in the sky, I love catching sight of the Pleiades (my knowledge of the star groupings is minimal, so I feel a bit like Corin yelling "Doug Fir"- any familiarity pleases me). Last night the moon, Jupiter and Venus looked close to each other, though as Tim explained to the boys, while holding several tennis balls aloft in demonstration, theirs is a closeness of perspective not a closeness of distance. All the same, the convergence was beautiful on a clear December night - and well worth tramping into the dark street for the view.



Today, the boys and my cousin, Kara, and I walked the gulch trail behind the ridge close to our house. There is something wonderful about this trail- it is just a pitch of the hill away from downtown and yet seems a completely separate, nestled world. Corin skipped ahead of us wearing his father christmas hat (with'Lindsay' written in sparkles across the fold) over top of the green stocking cap Kara knit him for his birthday. I love watching Corin move through life, still so much at ease with himself, still innocent of the self-censure that is sure to come before long. Who knows if next year he will still think wearing his mother's old Christmas cap atop another hat while skipping up the trail is a good thing to do? But for now, while it lasts, I mark it with gratitude and try to keep up as my two boys step sure-footed down the trail ahead of me.

Pictures from the gulch:
Corin in his caps
Seth


Kara and a red-berried Mountain Ash


Cloudscape above the ridge